Hey there, Creator!

Thanks for tuning in, and welcome if you're new to this corner of the internet. I never take your time and attention for granted, and I'm grateful you're here.

  • Want content shaped around your priorities? 🔥Make it happen here.

  • Someone forwarded this? 💌Subscribe to get it fresh, every Tuesday.

  • Missed an issue? 💬Catch up on past essays

  • Curious what else we’re building? 💡Insane Media lives here

  • Want your campaign in front of our creator community? 📌Reach out here.

  • Looking to join the convo? 📲Follow along on Instagram.

🌀 TL;DR

  • People remember only two moments of any experience: the best part and the ending.

  • The rest of your content barely registers in memory (sorry, but it’s true).

  • Create one wow moment and end with intention — that’s what sticks.

  • The quick answer: Create emotional peaks, design killer endings, sweat less about content length, and run through a checklist before posting.

Ever notice how people don’t remember your entire video, thread, or newsletter… just one or two moments from it?

That’s not a sign your audience has a bad memory. It’s just how human brains work.🧠

This is the peak-end rule at play, and it’s one of psychology’s most useful (and mildly infuriating) cognitive biases.

In short, people remember the most intense moment (the peak⛰️) and how it ended (the end🎇). Everything else is a blur.

Human brains can’t hold a lot of new information, especially when they’re scrolling on the attention black hole that is their phones. Instead of expecting everyone to pay attention to your every word, use the peak-end rule to work with your followers’ brains and get more traction for it.

Supported by Betterment

A solo 401(k) is a retirement account that’s built just for you — with tax advantages and contribution limits up to $70,000. Plus, at Betterment, you can open and fund by December 31 to waive your annual fee for the first year.

Here’s what else makes our solo 401(k) stand out:

  • Fully digital setup with automated contribution tracking

  • Get up to a $1,500 tax credit with auto-contributions

  • Low-cost ETF portfolios designed for growth

What is the peak-end rule?

Back in 1993, psychologists Daniel Kahneman and Barbara Frederickson ran a now-famous experiment that involved, of all things, cold water.🥶

Participants were asked to stick their hands in freezing water for a while. Then they repeated the experiment, but the second time, the water stayed cold for longer, but it was slightly warmer towards the end.

Guess which version people preferred? Yep, the longer one.🤷

Even though they had their hands in the ice water for more time, the warmth at the very end made everything before it seem like not a big deal.

Their judgment of the entire experience was shaped almost entirely by two points:

  1. The best or worst moment (the “peak”), and

  2. The final moments (the “end”).

They didn’t care how long it lasted, either.

This finding was replicated later in more… unpleasant scenarios, like colonoscopies. 🏥The results were the same: people judged the whole experience by its emotional peak and its ending, not its total duration or average pain level.

That’s why a meal that’s just “fine” can become amazing if the waiter surprises you with a free dessert at the end.🍨

It’s why a weeklong vacation fades into a fuzzy montage, but you vividly remember parasailing for the first time (peak) and hugging your friends goodbye (end).

And it’s why, in relationships, we tend to remember the proposal💍or the breakup, not the hundreds of ordinary Tuesdays in between.

The peak-end rule is your brain’s way of creating highlight reels about your life. It’s efficient, but it means if you’re a creator, the middle of your content doesn’t matter nearly as much as you think it does.

Designing experiences with the peak-end rule

As a content creator, you’re designing experiences: videos, newsletters, posts, courses, podcasts, and workshops. If you understand the peak-end rule, you can intentionally shape what people remember — and how they feel about you long after they’ve scrolled away.

1. Craft emotional “peaks” on purpose

The “peak” is the emotional high point, or the part that sticks in people’s memory. It could be:

  • A bold idea that challenges assumptions.

  • A line that makes them laugh out loud.🤣

  • A “wait, I’ve never thought of it that way” insight.

  • A moment of vulnerability that hits them in the gut.

Your goal is to engineer one unforgettable beat in every piece of content. That’s the clip people quote or the sentence they highlight.

Any time you create content, ask yourself, “Where is my ‘wow’ moment here?” If you can’t point to one, you don’t have a peak yet, and the content will probably fall flat.

2. End like you mean it

Most creators fizzle out at the end of a video or blog. They drop the final line, paste in a “thanks for reading,” and call it a day. But the ending has a huge impact on what your followers remember.

Your ending is your reputation in miniature. It’s how people decide whether to:

  • Follow you,

  • Share your post, or

  • Forget you exist. 👻

Instead of phoning it in, try ending with one of these:

  • A short, emotionally satisfying callback to your opening (completes the circle).

  • A memorable one-liner that crystallizes your message.

  • A tangible next step that helps your audience do something with what they just learned.

3. Remember: duration doesn’t matter

This rule has one especially freeing implication: length is irrelevant. You can make a 30-second TikTok or a 10-minute YouTube video; it doesn’t matter. If the peak and end are strong, the memory will be strong.

Remember, Kahneman’s subjects literally preferred longer pain if it ended on a better note. So, as a creator, don’t sweat about making your content a certain length. The quality of the peak and end matter way more than a magic duration.

4. Turn the peak-end rule into a creative checklist

You probably have a checklist you run through before making and posting content. 📋Get more eyeballs on your content by adding the peak-end rule to your creative checklist.

Before you hit publish, ask yourself:

  • Did I include a clear “peak”?

  • Does the ending resolve the emotional or intellectual journey?

  • Will my audience feel something when it’s over?

If you can say yes to all three, congratulations — you’ve just hacked your audience’s memory. If not, go back to the drawing board, because your followers deserve primo content.

5. Use the rule beyond content

The peak-end rule doesn’t just apply to single pieces of content. It shapes entire customer journeys.

You can use it for:

  • Courses or coaching programs: Create a major “aha” moment in the middle (peak) and a final transformation or celebration at the end.

  • Client interactions: Even if a project has bumps, ending with a great hand-off or small surprise gift can shift the client’s perception of the entire experience. 👩‍💼

  • Pricing: People mentally benchmark your highest price (peak) and your most recent price (end). Both affect how “affordable” you seem.

Make Your Moments Count

Your audience won’t remember everything you make, but they will remember how you made them feel at the best moment and at the end.💖

So design for that. Make your middle solid, sure, but obsess over your peaks and endings. That’s where loyalty, virality, and trust are born.

Your move: Next time you create something, pause before you publish and do this quick gut check:

  1. Find your peak. What’s the single most emotionally charged, insightful, or delightful moment in your piece? Can you make it 10% bolder?

  2. Fix your ending. Does it land? Does it make people feel something? Would you remember it if you were your own reader?

  3. Forget the filler. Stop worrying about the parts people won’t recall. Strengthen the parts they will.

As always, hit reply if something in here hits home.

P.S. If you want to get a feature about your own IP, reply to this email. If you’d like to reach our newsletter audience (founders, creators, and marketers), click the button below.

If you’re new here, I’m over the moon you’ve joined us! To help me craft content that’s actually useful (and not just noise in your inbox), I’d love it if you took 1 minute to answer this quick survey below. Your insights help shape everything I write.

Insane Media is more than one voice

Dive into our other newsletters - where psychology meets the founders, e-commerce marketing, Human resources and AI trends.

'AD-TO-CART'

'AD-TO-CART'

Tactical growth and marketing insights for e-commerce brands, backed by research and behavioral strategy.

It's Not the Work

It's Not the Work

Unfiltered people strategy, workplace culture shifts, and the future of HR – minus the corporate fluff.

Insane Founder

Insane Founder

Founder life is a mind game. Get behavioural and psychology-driven insights on growth, identity, and leadership - in your inbox, every Tuesday.

AI Odyssey

AI Odyssey

AI Odyssey delivers essential AI trends shaping the future of business, work, and tech – built for founders and decision-makers.

Keep Reading

No posts found